October 7th, 2006

Semiformalishmaybe

Catwings

Lying on my bed, I noticed something beautiful -- tonight's bright moon comes right in my window, illuminating the head of my bed. I hence relocated for tonight's message. Looking up at it for a moment, I ask myself why I haven't spent more time outside, and look at the empty side of the bed...

I'm feeling kind of melancholy about that again -- after thinking about it, I don't think Boston can really be even on my long-term radar - it's another cold city, with a high cost of living. If and when I move, it should be to Europe or someplace warm. It just seems odd to me that I've been alone this long. Part of me wants it, I know, and that helps it remain so, but I'm lonely. Listening to Cyndi Lauper's "Hot Gets a Little Cold" stirs up a memory - someone I was dating once told me that that's when they knew love is right - when the heat fades, and the danger feels less, and they're still around. At least, I *think* that was what they said. I wonder how cold things ever should get - I don't think I'd ever want things to feel like a convenience, even as I expect the rush of feeling a crush to fade as time goes on. I imagine it might be an interesting way to live life - riding the crush part of each relationship until it fades, and then finding someone new. Perhaps that's what the "settling down urge" that everyone says is based in biology prevents.

Prompted by another friend's LJ entry, I prodded Google CodeSearch with my name. The results arn't mostly code I wrote, but they're all me. I actually have a lot more code out there, absent because my name isn't attached to much of it. Results:

  • Apparently in 2000, I reported a bug in the Perl module Image::Xpm
  • Some code I wrote for PernAngband (now named ToME). That's one of my retired email addresses.. I don't remember when I wrote this
  • Some work stuff I wrote 3 or 4 years ago for CMU Robotics. I'm surprised this code is on the web freely somewhere - when I was there they wanted to know everyone who used their software (helps in getting grants) even though it was freely distributed
  • I once wrote detailed install notes for a sendmail-phone_paging bridge for the SCO7 platform, and made it into a thanks page. It appears that OpenBSD incorporated the package at some point.
  • Some of the mozilla codebase that puts my name in about:credits for my work with the Mozilla project during its very early days
  • An ancient snapshot of this BLOG I put online sometime back and forgot about
The local public transit now finally works with Google Transit. It doesn't hesitate to tell me to walk when the start and end points are near enough :) Apparently, my way to get between my place and some distant friends can be radically improved upon -- the 54C (a bus I've never used) seems to be one of the few north-south busses in the city.

Time to look more at the moon..

Semiformalishmaybe

The Desire to be Recycled

Today, I think I came to a deeper understanding as to why I've been unhappy about things in general - part of it is that I operate best on the edges of large social groups. Thinking back over my life, the times when I've done so have been the best, emotionally, for me, as it gives me both the freedom of having a low-key tie to something and the ability to get more substantial human contact when I need that. This is different from having a few close friends - right now I probably don't have quite enough of those, but things arn't terrible in that regard for me right now. I think that the reason I don't have a posse is that society, as a whole, abandons people like me when we get past a certain age. In University, there are plenty of opportunities to interact, with foci of having fun, talking about intellectual things, etc. Those thin out as people leave the academic environment - one must put in serious effort (and ideally have a car) to find things where older people fit. Right now I'm of the age where it's not too awkward to be with university students, and I could (and would, if the right people were free and interested) date them without feeling odd. In another few years, that won't be the case. What is there left here for an older intellectual? Not so much - if I were the type to meet people in bars, or liked sports, or similar, I'd probably be set, but the intellectual and personal flavours I like in people tend to be most common with university students -- people who have not sold out and become intellectually dead, people who are fun to be around and like illumninati, etc etc. I wonder, when I think of how often my parents and other adults have said it, if "university was the best time of my life" was simply talking about the mixing pot and attitudes of those times. The idea of twenty to fifty people in a large social group I can float vaguely near just feels right to me, and I don't exactly have it right now -- SFF, Zets, KGB, a few other things.. Are things this way in other countries, or is this a uniquely American problem? What is it about age that increases social isolation? I suspect that it's not so much that people are deadened by work, it's that the larger-scale social organisations fade when people move and they don't build new ones of the same scale for some reason. It may be that the larger scale social organisations are artificial in the sense of being mostly an accidental side effect of university society, and that people wouldn't make things of this size on their own. Small towns that regularly have whole-town meetings (seems like a good idea for neighbourhoods, actually) might achieve this though. To older folk completely outside of any degree program, have you found the post-University transition hard in this way? To younger folk, does this transition worry you? To anyone in another country, how does this compare to your society?

I keep thinking about how clumsy wikis tend to be at acting like a message board, and how we insist on using them for message board type functionality. I would be interested to see a wiki that can still do proper threaded but managable conversations. If I come to an idea on the right way to manage this, I'll probably implement it in POUND..

Today I failed to go out and take pictures in the morning (was a bit too slow to get my stuff together, at least partly because I slept in until about 13:30). I almost missed Cosby because I confused Heinz Hall with either/both the nearby hall connected to one of the nearby Carnegie Museums and the Pitt music hall. Fortunately, I double-checked the address in time to bus down there. Cosby was great - in all his jokes about how funny people are, and how married couples interact, he reminded me how much I care about finding someone and having those experiences with them. Despite the hall being absolutely packed and huge, he gave it an intimate, small-crowd feel.

I am sorely tempted, for the first time with my present job, to apply for another, very unique job at CMU. It would be a moderate shift in job duties, with a bunch of really wacky characteristics, involving a fair amount of travel and very unusual hours. I expect the pay would be better too. My recent unsureness about things with my present job with the office move, combined with a feeling that i should change *something* about my life to keep things fresh, tempt me. I'm not sure if I should go for it or not, but I should change something in my life.

I swung by the CS Cluster on the way back from work to be slightly social, and on the way back from that I unfortunately was sitting near some people who smelled bad. I was tempted to hop out partway on the trip - odors like that are something that I've become far less tolerant of over the years.

Things of possible interest:

  • The capability for complex contracts clogs markets. I've never understood why we make some deviations from the ideals of capitalism (economic crimes), like price fixing and insider trading, illegal (mind you, I think they should be, in this model) without taking the further steps of making advertising as it is now and exclusive contracts illegal and ending product trademarks (that is, allow company names to be trademarks, but not product names), as they all represent similar deviations from the ideals of this system. For the prudes and brandwatching firms, fuck you Aquage.
  • Commons MP Jack Straw asks Muslim women to deveil when visiting his gatherings. This brings to mind issues with veils and religious garb/practice in general. I don't think we should respect religious or cultural practice in a way beyond if it were individual practice. I believe the veil is indeed a social barrier as well as a symbol of a certain type of different status. Should a society be able to enforce such ideas? I think it should at the very least be able to suggest it - I don't think it's healthy for a society to adopt the "none of my business" attitude - that destroys society. I don't know if I'd feel completely comfortable supporting a full veil ban, although I would be tempted. In schools, I would be completely comfy though.
  • The Vatican may end limbo. The philosophy behind this is interesting.
  • Monster dolphin fossils in the Arctic!
  • Give us your poor, your... Mexicans?
  • Coffee, Cigars, and Sex hold old Cubans together? Or is it that many Cubans like these things, and old people like talking about them as much as youth?
  • Bible-thumpers picket Amish funerals. Nothing like watching devoutly religious people pissing off other devoutly religious people.
  • Ban Farenheit 451?
  • West Indies Company part 2
  • Wal-Mart gets worse